Doing” or “To-Do
The most important thing on our “Doing” or “To-Do” list is to take care of those things that will validate the way we do business. Business, like cluttering, isn’t about things; it’s about people.
“To-Do” lists work great—for some people. Organized people rely heavily on them. For some disorganized people, a To-Do list is the only tool they know. Putting a To-Do list in the hands of the chronically disorganized is like giving a computer to a Neanderthal. We dutifully make them, secretly believing that whatever we put on the list will magically get done by the end of the day. For us, they are more like letters to Santa.
Aside from the fact that a clutterer loses his “To-Do” list in his clutter, the name implies “ought as to.” Our natural rebelliousness flares up. “Nobody’s gonna tell me what I ought to do.” In Texas, when we say we’re “fixing to do” something, it means we’ve advanced beyond thinking about it, but aren’t ready to take action. It’s an intermediate step, something that should appeal to clutterers. “Fixing to do” something keeps us from committing to getting it done. Some people feel the same way about “To-Do” lists.
Replace your “To-Do” list with a “Doing” list. We are actively doing those things that need to be done. This little bit of semantics can change our attitude. Sure, it’s just a couple of words, but words are what make us. We engage in self-talk all the time. Psychiatrists tell us that by changing our negative self-talk to positive self-talk, we can make a first step to changing negative behaviors (we still have to take action, but that comes later). They suggest changing “I can’t” phrases to “I can” phrases. A “Doing” list is a set of actions we are taking, right now. And right now is the only time we really have.